This is the moment. You’ve tweaked your profile till it sings, uploaded your most flattering photos, and scrutinized a squillion other posted hopefuls in your search for The One?or at least for some fun. You’ve had some responses and sent some yourself, and maybe that little frisson of thrilling… [more]

See that girl across the room? Ba-da-boom! That’s the one!
Buy her a drink. She smiles. You chat. She smiles. It’s all good. So you ask her out. And she . . . declines.
What happened? What did you do wrong?
Not a thing. She simply wasn’t attracted to you.
You must have been on the flip side… [more]

Lovers’ quarrel. Marital spat. The Battle of the Sexes. The War Between Men and Women. Why is it that intelligent adults of the same species, even those that love each other, have so much trouble communicating?
The truth is, disagreements with your Significant Other don’t have to escalate into… [more]

Is anything worse than the end of a long-term relationship? You feel as though somebody died. Maybe your partner; certainly, the relationship itself. You probably feel kind of dead inside, yourself.
You’ve been through all the stages: denial and loneliness, anger, fighting to keep things as they… [more]

Dear Auntie,
I’ve got two questions that are driving me crazy.
First of all, why do men always assume that if you’re friendly and seem to like them ok, of course you want to have sex with them? They even ask you, “Why don’t you want to have sex with me?” Like, what am I supposed to tell them? I… [more]

It may seem as though the mating game is little more than a crapshoot?at least on those days when you keep coming up snake eyes.
That’s not entirely true, though. As with most things, there are rules. Know them, use them, and the odds can shift heavily in your favor.
Rule I. The mere-exposure… [more]

Virtual libraries have been written about rejection?how to survive it, how to rise above it. You’ve seen the titles: 3 techniques, 9 phases, 18 steps to . . . deal with it. The truth is, you will survive it (unless you decide not to), and you can learn from it, if you’re straight with… [more]

Recent studies have already shown that women are more likely to stray during their fertile period each month?the 48 hours or so of ovulation. They’re also more likely to be attracted to macho-type guys (dominant “alpha” males) during that same couple of days.
Now it turns out, according to yet… [more]

Asking for that first date is one thing; making it turn out great is something else again. You want to get to know each other better, have fun, fan the flames, and?if all goes well?clinch a second date.
No problem. All you need is an entertaining activity that stimulates all those good-buzz brain… [more]

The trouble with so many women is that they really don’t want to hurt your feelings. They’re just too damned polite.
Or else they want to be pursued. They need to know that you think they’re worth the time and effort. (Don’t think they haven’t considered this, learned it from their mothers,… [more]